Hello! I saw this on the front page of LJ. I'm from Victoria BC! Hope you enjoyed the island. Congrats on battle cancer! And I'm sorry but your ex-gf sounds like a mess. Not believing in western medicine and believing cancer is because of internal conflicts... like, I can't. You're better off! Can I ask a question though? How come you fled after having sex for the first time? I hope you find love someday! It's difficult for many of us!