There's an option in settings you can click so your entries don't turn up on the front page. I didn't swoop in here, I read your entire post and then commented. Sorry, but people who don't believe in westner medicine are ridiculous, and your whole post was pretty much getting frustrated with her and you even expressed being offended that she basically victim-blamed you for your cancer, so I don't know why you're getting mad at me. People can be friends with people who are messy without being messy themselves. I mean, you believe in western medicine so obviously you guys aren't the same! Hmm interesting. Sex to me was no big deal so I can't relate to that at all. Sad you ignored my comments about living on Vancouver Island, or congrats on beating cancer or wishing you find love, but oh well!