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Last night I realized that this month is the 25th anniversary of my move to Seattle and into this house. I moved here in January 1984. I can't remember what the date was, but it was pretty soon after New Year's, maybe the 4th.

I've lived in this house for over half my life, which I figured out this morning has been true for a year now. Bizarre. I moved a lot when I was in college, as you do, and when I graduated and moved up here I swore I'd never move again. So far, so good.

For the most part, it has been just me and Denys, who has lived here just over thirty years. When I first moved in, paul was still living here. After he moved out, Steve moved in briefly. By the time he moved out, the $320 rent we were paying didn't seem like too much for two people to handle. The only other person who has lived here since was Denys' foster son (if that's the right term), Daniel, who moved in for a couple of years after his mother died of cancer.

Denys and I are perhaps an odd couple, but we've obviously worked out pretty well as housemates. We bought the house sometime in the mid-'90s. I can't remember the year, but it was right when housing prices started to climb sharply in Seattle, thanks to the tech bubble. We were still paying $320 a month rent, because Norvin never raised it, but we knew that the window on affordability for us was closing. I have mixed feelings about home ownership, since I'm not much interested in maintenance or home improvement, but it does keep the rug from being pulled out from under us. Fremont is a great neighborhood, and I've always liked living here. When [livejournal.com profile] sneerpout visited in 2001, she said it looked like I belonged here.

Perhaps even more scary is that next month will be my 20th anniversary at the University. I started there in February 1989, still looking something like the icon on this post. I wrote about stasis in the '90s recently, but this longevity of home and workplace are more like stability, I think. Putting down roots. Well, at least Denys and I have been able to provide basement space to a variety of friends who needed temporary long-term storage.
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Date: 2009-01-03 07:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] randy-byers.livejournal.com
Before I moved up here, I think the longest I'd lived in one house was eight years at Cottage Street in Salem, Oregon. Although actually I guess we lived there for a year or two before we moved to Yap, too. I don't think my parents have ever lived in one house for very long, but my brother and sister have been in their current houses for quite a while. My brother has probably been in house about the same number of years as I've been in this one, because he got married just a few months before I moved up here and bought their house around that time.

Date: 2009-01-03 08:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] holyoutlaw.livejournal.com
The same employer and the same home for so long feels like stability to me. Sometimes I feel like I'm just running in place, "moving all day and not moving at all/like the moon under the waves that ever go rolling."

Date: 2009-01-03 09:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] randy-byers.livejournal.com
What's that line from?

Date: 2009-01-03 09:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] holyoutlaw.livejournal.com
I first saw it on a poster for Sonic Seasonings by Wendy Carlos.

I googled it after posting it here, and it's from Tsunemoto, as it happens. Most of the references to it are from Tae Kwon Do and electronic music sites. Hah!

Date: 2009-01-03 09:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] randy-byers.livejournal.com
Huh, I had never heard of him. Guess I haven't watched enough samurai movies!

Date: 2009-01-04 03:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] profgeek.livejournal.com
Happy anniversary. This must have been a very moving experience.

Date: 2009-01-04 05:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] randy-byers.livejournal.com
You are a Very Bad Man!

Date: 2009-01-04 06:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] profgeek.livejournal.com
Someone has to be!

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