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2012-12-16-Jay at the Outlander


I'm trying to digest the news that my friend Jay died suddenly today, apparently of a heart condition that he'd never told me about. He was a good friend for close to thirty years, and a next-door neighbor for many of those years. He was just here on Sunday to watch the football game with me, sitting on the couch, drinking a beer, shooting the breeze. It is completely unfathomable to me at the moment that he is gone. None of it makes any sense.

Date: 2013-12-11 06:15 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] gerisullivan.livejournal.com
Sympathy!

What a shock. What an utter shock.

Date: 2013-12-11 06:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] croneitude.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry Randy. Big hugs and love to you.

Date: 2013-12-11 07:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bohemiancoast.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry to hear this.

Date: 2013-12-11 07:28 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] spikeiowa.livejournal.com
Oh Kid. I'm so sorry!

Date: 2013-12-11 01:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jophan.livejournal.com
I'm really sorry to hear that. My condolences!

Date: 2013-12-11 03:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] replyhazy.livejournal.com
((hugs)).

Date: 2013-12-11 05:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cpt-buggernuts.livejournal.com
Christ. I'm sorry to hear that.

Date: 2013-12-11 06:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kate-schaefer.livejournal.com
Randy, I'm so sorry and so surprised.

Date: 2013-12-11 07:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] surliminal.livejournal.com
No it doesn't. Im sorry.

All I can say is my neice,s baby was born today. It goes round.

Date: 2013-12-11 08:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] holyoutlaw.livejournal.com
My condolences.

Date: 2013-12-11 08:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] smofbabe.livejournal.com
Very sorry for your loss.

Date: 2013-12-11 10:34 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] dalmeny
Very sorry that you have so suddenly lost a good friend.

Date: 2013-12-12 06:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ron-drummond.livejournal.com
Wow! Very sorry to hear this, a total shock. I started to write, "My heart is with you, and Elonna, and Sophia, and the families," and this is true, but I also wonder: is my own heart even with me? Was Jay's with him? Are we always already gone in an instant, and do we always nevertheless remain? He has turned a corner that is not in our world, and he cannot be followed even as we are destined to follow him.
Edited Date: 2013-12-12 06:35 am (UTC)

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